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GUT FELLING... :)
Dec. 8th, 2010 01:02 pmi thought gut feelings are just "feelings"... :-/
i never thought those are REAL... like you could rely on them...
---> one of the reporters here talked about gut feelings... he said that you would never have those gut feelings if you don't 'feel' any and why feel something absurd if the environment you are moving at seems NORMAL...
then he talked about 3rd party system in a relationship... he mentioned that he's agreement between his partner was he (partner... that's right he's gay) that they can have third parties but never mention every detail of what happened and stuff... we ask him if he ever knows if his partner has a 3rd party... he said he's gut feelings tells him... i was like... "what?!" and ask him whether or not those are even reliable... then all he said was.. "you will never have a absurd feeling when ever thing seems to be normal right?"
well, i was like "yah.. maybe" and ask another question... "how did you concluded that gut feelings are for real?"... he just said... "well that is how i feel... but trust me they are true... example you ask him a question like where have you been? and if his answer did not satisfy you or he's angry about you asking him or you rephrased the question but still the answer is a bit not correct... then you suddenly had a gut feeling that he is doing something fishy... that's true..."
i kindda relate to his answer ... then i ask another question which really happened to me 2 years ago... "What if he's always angry and always thinks that you have a 3rd party but you don't...?" he answered me: "Maybe that guy is in secured... about the thinking you have a 3rd party... he's having one... you know... you will not think 'bad' things about others if you yourself don't... i mean... come on... maybe he's making an excuse that he doesn't want you any more... my advice: try doing things that will make you detach yourself from him..."
i want to ask some more but it might turn out that i'm consulting to him... :)
well... that is what I learned...
nice one MATSUJUN!!! XD
i never thought those are REAL... like you could rely on them...
---> one of the reporters here talked about gut feelings... he said that you would never have those gut feelings if you don't 'feel' any and why feel something absurd if the environment you are moving at seems NORMAL...
then he talked about 3rd party system in a relationship... he mentioned that he's agreement between his partner was he (partner... that's right he's gay) that they can have third parties but never mention every detail of what happened and stuff... we ask him if he ever knows if his partner has a 3rd party... he said he's gut feelings tells him... i was like... "what?!" and ask him whether or not those are even reliable... then all he said was.. "you will never have a absurd feeling when ever thing seems to be normal right?"
well, i was like "yah.. maybe" and ask another question... "how did you concluded that gut feelings are for real?"... he just said... "well that is how i feel... but trust me they are true... example you ask him a question like where have you been? and if his answer did not satisfy you or he's angry about you asking him or you rephrased the question but still the answer is a bit not correct... then you suddenly had a gut feeling that he is doing something fishy... that's true..."
i kindda relate to his answer ... then i ask another question which really happened to me 2 years ago... "What if he's always angry and always thinks that you have a 3rd party but you don't...?" he answered me: "Maybe that guy is in secured... about the thinking you have a 3rd party... he's having one... you know... you will not think 'bad' things about others if you yourself don't... i mean... come on... maybe he's making an excuse that he doesn't want you any more... my advice: try doing things that will make you detach yourself from him..."
i want to ask some more but it might turn out that i'm consulting to him... :)
well... that is what I learned...
GUT FEELINGS ARE THE BEST!!!! (~_n)
nice one MATSUJUN!!! XD
